Hey I don't know why my boyfriend is not telling me why he is mad at me. It is weird because he always tells me. What should I do?

Simply talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. If he won't sit and listen make it clear that he's hurting you, and you want to fix the relationship and keep you two happy. If he still continues to not tell you what's wrong them let him know that your not putting up with it anymore.

Goodluck x

But he doesn't want to talk about it and I love him so much he said he really didn't want to talk about it so I said OK I am sorry

So forget about it and move onto something else. You need to read up on how males operate.

No I love him you don't know we have been together for 2 years and this is the first time he ever didn't tell me something but we are kind of good because you went to the lake today we just got bck we are at his house by ourselves so you it is kind of getting better but I mean I asked him a few minutes ago and he said he doesn't want to talk about it and it will just make him get mad and sad again I love him so much I am scared if I fall asleep I will loose him and I don't want that to happen but he said I won't loose him but I am scared I will

The best way to handle this is to be your usual cheery self. That will cause him to be cheery too. If you go on and on to him about problems and his being mad, he will get more and more upset and not put it behind him. You want him to move forward, not backward.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

The best way to handle this is to be your usual cheery self. That will cause him to be cheery too. If you go on and on to him about problems and his being mad, he will get more and more upset and not put it behind him. You want him to move forward, not backward.

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Thanks that I will try I am 15 we have been together 2 years my name is kyler and is name is rayden thanks for helping me and I am going to go to go in his room and see if he is OK like cheer him up should I kiss him we have kissed before but not in a long time like 3 weeks so I don't know should I

How can you go to his room? Do you live together?

Yes I moved in with him and his mom I moved in with him a year ago

Where are your parents? Why are you living with your boyfriend's family?

My family at there house I wanted to live with my boyfriend so I did but it took forever for my parents to say yes and his mom said yes 2 days later he asked and my parents took like a month I sleep in his room with him his mom has her own room his brother has his own room and his sister has his own room and there is an extra room but his my was like you can sleep in his room or the extra room and me and him wanted me to sleep in his room so I said his room and she said OK and so when she is at work and we come home from school I take care of the little kids and he takes care of the house and his mom is like you could all life together because I am a really good mom to her when she is at work and he is a good dad

As far as his "mad" goes, just remember that girls like to talk about their feelings, but guys don't. In fact, girls can talk all night and all day about their feelings, but guys just want to change the oil in the car or finish their homework or take the dog for a walk (action things, not talk). So, are there DOING things, action things, you can do to show him you care about him? If he wants to talk about the "mad" stuff, he will in his own time, but do not pressure him or act all needy and weepy. Okay?

Kk

How did it change subjects

Well dear you have not written that is he was the same before... not landing you in the problem but as per my experience he might be having an affair because my boyfriend was too unnecessarly shouting and yelling at me all the time until I have caught him with an girl,with whom he was with for 8 month without my knowledge