Hy all I'm 15 n I like a guy whose 1 year young to me and we have been okay okay friends since 6 months but I hate his big brother as he is always talking bull about me but still I forgive him every time and the guy I like is his brother and he is a very innocent cute and not into relationship and he also told me that that there was only 1 girl he liked but watever my 2 best friend r very close to him and treat him like there small bro but seeing them gtting close makes me feel bad but I know there intension is not like that and these people had started pairing me up with him and now I realise that I do love him he used to always ask questions to me like do I have a boyfriend or if I like any guy but I just don't know how to solve it . I every evening go down to the park to play and he is there and we don't speak that much and I every evening am waiting for him to speak to me its just horrible because I am thinking of him the whole day and writing poems about him its just crazy! I don't know what to do ! Pplz help me out !

To help you, we will first need to make sense out of what you wrote. Read it, it's very hard to understand. No punctuation or anything... just one long run on sentence.

From what I get out of it is that you like him but he doesn't like you... right?

It happens. You deal with it and move on to someone who will like you.

I agree with odinn7 on all points

Srry about it.. look, I noticed that he also likes me but I'm confused bez I don't really know what are his feelings for me! Its just that since past 1 month I realized that I do like him and I really can't get over him.. :(

You know he also likes you, but you don't know his feelings?
If you know he likes you then why are you trying to get over him without finding out how he feels?

Also I got pretty tired trying to read that, is that text speak? If you would spell out your words it would help this granny out.

I meant, that I had noticed it once that he does like me. As I mentioned above also that he used to every time ask me if I have a boyfriend or not or if I like any guy, but I don't know if he feels the same. I am not sure about it! And I am trying to get over him because I am scared that he might not have the same feelings for me... :(. But anyway its just been tough for me these days but thanks for your help.. :)

He said there is only one girl that he liked. Do you think it might be you? Why don't you ask him, or just let the friendship develop.

If a guy asks you if you have a boyfriend, 9 times out of 10 (at your age) he likes you. Go talk to him! That's all you can do, you can't just sit around and wait for a guy to talk to you, because just like the little spider on the wall, he's probably more afraid of you than you are of him.

Talk to him, it's all you can do!

Best of luck!

Oh, and to answer your initial question about not liking his brother, try this one. My girlfriends older brother is a scum bag, and he's even assaulted me twice, one time of which I charged him. I'm still with this girl, live with her, and are very close with her parents. So don't worry about the older brother, unless he's directly influencing his feelings, than he's none of your concern.

U know it is not that easy for me to directly ask him as now we do not talk like good friends.it is really hard. but ill try to talk to him today.
But thanks for your help people.. :)
Really appreciate it..

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u know it is not that easy for me to directly ask him as now we do not talk like good friends.it is really hard.! but ill try to talk to him today .!
but thanks for ur help people..!:)
really appreciate it..!

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Just think, he probably feels the same way. :) So there, you've got something in common already. You can do it!

Yeah I guess I should talk to him now but anyway thanks for your help.. :)

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yeah i guess i should talk to him now but anyways thanks for ur help..:)

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