Hi Guys

Am in relationship for 1 year 8 months my Gal she is 26, we have had good and bad moments together fights and romance,the problem is during this period we have separated for more than 5 times an on all cases she is the one who askes for separation ,all the times when we are separated I never call her even visit her she is the one who comes after me.at the momet we are together but I feel like she doent have enough time for our relationship,when I talk to her she says she will find time .During the weekends she preferes to spend time with her cousins , she only sees me once or twize if there is a special reason. I really don't know what to do,is it me who doesn't know how to treat her well ,our romance is bad she sleeps at my place but we don't have sex often.Pls help

You are being treated poorly and you are unhappy.
Why don't you be the one to leave and don't take her back again. You are caught up in a cycle that is not good. Break the it!

Seems to me like you're not really in a relationship at all, she's just your roommate. Sounds like you have to sit down and really think about what you two are doing, and decide if it's worth moving on, or if you're both wasting your time.