Due to his tantrums I may not able to control my anger, sometimes I beat him and shout at him badly, after some time I feel sorry. But I am depressed please suggest me what to do. Do I have to worry about whether he is hyper or this is just my thought.
Whenever I don't fulfill his demands or say no to anything he cries lot and vomete.
Since starting I get angry very soon so I worried that is his tantrums increase bcos of my angry reaction or not. Please help me and suggest best possible ways to handle him and how I can be calm and keep patience.

So I'm having trouble understanding that mess but what I get out of it is that you have a kid that has tantrums and you can't handle it so... you beat him.

Is that it? Holy sh*t... you need to seek therapy. You shouldn't even have a kid... who beats their kid because of a tantrum? Then you wonder why he gets worse when you do it?

You need to go seek help now.

This is disgusting.

How old is this child and how old are you?

Also, in which country do you live?

We are very happy to help you, but we need more information.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

So I'm having trouble understanding that mess but what I get out of it is that you have a kid that has tantrums and you can't handle it so....you beat him.

Is that it? Holy sh*t...you need to seek therapy. You shouldn't even have a kid...who beats their kid because of a tantrum? Then you wonder why he gets worse when you do it?

You need to go seek help now.

This is disgusting.

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It doesn't happen always but sometime I loose temper and I need some basic suggestion to handle. What generally happen is that either I fulfill his demands or shoutat him . Many times I handle it. I agree with you but what can I do now