What should I do if the person that I have a crushed on is now engaged in a relationship?

Should I wait for her to breakup? Or should I just move on? My crush seems to be the right person for me, and I am not sure if I can find a more compatible person than she is in the future.

I am feeling really sad and unmotivated.

I would appreciate some advice and strategies from everyone of you.

Bet if you get other things going in your life you will deal with this attraction in more positive ways and respect the boundaries of her relationship. If you cannot control your feelings and actions, your life will be a mess.

Focus on cleaning up the messy life you have, and stay within the boundaries of good behavior around the girl. That's you best strategy. If you explore your own world, then you may find a female that's MORE compatible, and doesn't have a boyfriend. Or other fun and interesting things to distract your thought from this one girl.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Bet if you get other things going in your life you will deal with this attraction in more positive ways and respect the boundaries of her relationship. If you cannot control your feelings and actions, your life will be a mess.

Focus on cleaning up the messy life you have, and stay within the boundaries of good behavior around the girl. Thats you best strategy. If you explore your own world, then you may find a female thats MORE compatible, and doesn't have a boyfriend. Or other fun and interesting things to distract your thought from this one girl.

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Thanks for your advise talaniman.