I've lost a couple of friends they just turned their backs on me not knowing the reason why I then met new ones but they also dd the same but started becoming worried one day my ex friend on Facebook qwrote a status masege I was just trying to warn her not to write personal stuff to people and I think she ddnt know how to tel me in know for such a long tym now that's where she got to tell me that I'm selfish and heey I did not quit understand the word selfish what does it mean.then I asked ma classmate what does it mean she told me thinking for myself only and not for the next person that is how I started noticing myself and going through my mind I am really not sure if I'm selfish or what can you help