My boyfriend fingered me and was rough and I started bleeding,d then stopped, then went home and started again. The next day I had pain-like cramps and I looked online and it says to just wait a few days, but I just wanted to be sure. This happened May 25.

Please don't put up with this behavior again. He could cause you lots of future problems if he continues with this. I don't get the "rough": part. Is that what he thinks "real men" do? If so, he's very wrong.

I strongly suggest you see a doctor to make sure everything is okay and all pieces of you are where they should be.