Ok these two guys are fighting over me. They like me for the same reasons (I'm the prettiest girl in school, I'm the most popular girl in school, I am not afraid to show who I am, etc. erc. Who do I choose?? I like them both the same, as friends, so who do I choose?? They won't let me tell them anything, all they say is you sure whatever then keep on fighting. What do I do?

Totally ignore them and do your homework, stay busy in school, do your chores at home, be pleasant to everyone, and learn how to validate yourself without thinking you are "all that."

If you like them both as friends, be friends with both. Why do you have to choose. You'll probably be writing about someone else next week.

Its not that serious that you would have to choose. How old are you like 12?

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Originally Posted by neddylove

Its not that serious that you would have to choose. How old are you like 12?

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No I'm 15

Sounds more 12 but OK.

First if they are "fighting" over you they are too childish anyway.

If you can't choose, then you don't like anyone of them enough to pick.

If you can't pick real easy, then you don't. Not being able to pick means that you are not ready to pick, or neither one of them is right.

Next of course you are not the prettiest girl in school, you think you are, other girls will think they same. And guess what, other guys will think other girls area, not all guys like the same look, hair color, bust size and more. No one girl is prettiest to everyone.

And ask about 20 older people what being the most popular or prettiest in school got them? For my class it was pregnant by 18, several kids and married 3 times to losers who were the local sports champs and never made anything in their life.

It was having high school as the most or best high lite in your life and at reunions only having that big foot ball game or those cheer leading days to talk about.

If you like them both as friends, be friends with both. Why do you have to choose. You'll probably be writing about someone else next week.

There is no reason you need to date either of them. Concentrate on your studies.