Need some general advice preferably from female experts on how to begin small talk with women. I would also like to know how to actually pay attention to her and not her assets. Not meaning to sound crude. I'm just being honest. I'm a young man who just got back from prison truth be told. Woman have always been a vague topic to me. I could really use some general help on how to get to know them . I would also like to know of some healthy topics that can be discussed. That way I won't be asking too many personal questions to early in the stages of the potential friendship.