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  • May 26, 2012, 02:43 PM
    Female1234
    First-time sex--am I pregnant?
    So I had sex for the first time 2 days ago. He used a condom, and didn't inside of me. He cummed like 10 minutes after pulling out from me jacking him off. I have a bladder infection, but I know it's not an STD. Am I pregnant? I'm scared he could have precummed or something or the condom broke. Help pleaseeeeee!
  • May 26, 2012, 02:58 PM
    Kitkat323
    Trust you'd know if the condom broke. I think your just a little bit paranoid since it was your first time, it seems to me that you did everything and I think unlikely that you are pregnant. But I think it would be a good idea for you to think of going on some sort of contraceptive.
  • May 26, 2012, 04:04 PM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat323 View Post
    trust you'd know if the condom broke. i think your just a little bit paranoid since it was your first time, it seems to me that you did everything and i think unlikely that you are pregnant. but i
    think it would be a good idea for you to think of going on some sort of contraceptive.

    I'm so scared.. Should I take a pregnancy test at home?
  • May 26, 2012, 04:24 PM
    Female1234
    I need to know if I'm pregnant
    I went to the doctor today because it hurt when I peed. They made me pee in a cup to see what was wrong with me. I have a bladder infection. Would testing my pee tell them if I'm pregnant? I had my first sex 2 days ago, and he used a condom. He didn't inside of me or anything. I'm so scared. Should I take a home pregnancy test? I have First Response. Helppppp!
  • May 26, 2012, 04:46 PM
    joypulv
    They might have done pregnancy while looking for infection, but 2 days is way too soon to find out. Tests won't be near accurate until a week or so past your first missed period (or very light period).
    Condoms are not very good at preventing pregnancy. Rates I've seen vary, but run around 25% failure rate.
  • May 26, 2012, 04:54 PM
    ScottGem
    Any time you have penile insertion there is a risk of pregnancy. You can reduce the risk, but not eliminate it. And you really don't know if he let go of any sperm while inside or not.

    The time to take a test is about 2 weeks after you miss your period.
  • May 26, 2012, 04:54 PM
    DrBill100
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Female1234 View Post
    I went to the doctor today because it hurt when I peed. They made me pee in a cup to see what was wrong with me. I have a bladder infection. Would testing my pee tell them if I'm pregnant? I had my first sex 2 days ago, and he used a condom. He didn't inside of me or anything. I'm so scared. Should I take a home pregnancy test? I have First Response. Helppppp!

    While urinalysis can detect pregnancy it cannot do so at 2 days. Closer to 2 weeks (must follow implantation). Read the information on your First Response home test and it looks for the same pregnancy hormone hCG (Human Chorionic Gonadotropin) and will be likewise ineffective at that short time interval.
  • May 26, 2012, 05:16 PM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    They might have done pregnancy while looking for infection, but 2 days is way too soon to find out. Tests won't be near accurate til a week or so past your first missed period (or very light period).
    Condoms are not very good at preventing pregnancy. Rates I've seen vary, but run around 25% failure rate.

    My periods are irregular, so when should I take a home pregnancy test? It's been like 3 weeks since my last period but I don't know when I'm going to start back
  • May 26, 2012, 05:28 PM
    Kitkat323
    Wait for at least 3 weeks to take a pregnancy.. also you still have time to take the morning after pill as an extra precautionary if you haven't already done so
  • May 26, 2012, 05:53 PM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat323 View Post
    wait for at least 3 weeks to take a pregnancy.. also you still have time to take the morning after pill as an extra precautionary if you haven't already done so

    Could I go get the pill tomorrow?
  • May 26, 2012, 05:57 PM
    Kitkat323
    Yes the morning after pill works up to 72 hours ( 3 days) after having unprotected sex
  • May 26, 2012, 06:11 PM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat323 View Post
    yes the morning after pill works up to 72 hours ( 3 days) after having unprotected sex

    But we used a condom, and he didn't inside of me. He pulled out, took the condom off, and starting jacking off over the toilet. And as I got dressed he cummed into the toilet
  • May 26, 2012, 06:20 PM
    Kitkat323
    You can still ask for the morning pill
  • May 26, 2012, 06:34 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Female1234 View Post
    But we used a condom, and he didn't inside of me. He pulled out, took the condom off, and starting jacking off over the toilet. and as I got dressed he cummed into the toilet

    I said it before any time you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. The chances of you being pregnant are very small, but not zero.
  • May 26, 2012, 06:56 PM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    I said it before any time you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. The chances of you being pregnant are very small, but not zero.

    If we had sex around 10 or 10:30 Thursday morning, would I still have time to take Plan B?
  • May 26, 2012, 07:49 PM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    I said it before any time you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. The chances of you being pregnant are very small, but not zero.

    So should I be freaking out? And should I take a pregnancy test in the next week?
  • May 27, 2012, 04:15 AM
    ScottGem
    No you shouldn't be freaking out, But you should wait a few weeks until you are sure your period doesn't come.
  • May 27, 2012, 08:54 AM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    No you shouldn't be freaking out, But you should wait a few weeks until you are sure your period doesn't come.

    Is the possibility that I'm pregnant large or small?
  • May 27, 2012, 09:11 AM
    ScottGem
    Small
  • May 27, 2012, 09:29 AM
    Female1234
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    small

    He used protection, but he might have precummed. How would that get me pregnant if there was a condom blocking it? I know for a fact he didn't actually ejaculate

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