So I like this guy. He is so nice, and hilarious, and hot, too. He has an amazing singing voice. We were recently both accepted to a prestigious high school and will be spending the next four years together. Only problem is... he might be gay. I don't think so, because we spend lots of time together, and the other kids that are going to our high school next year already think that we are dating. He's held my hand, hugged me, and we talk a lot. At my school, we are both in the theater concentration. I don't think he's gay, but the majority of the other guys in theater are gay. It seems like he kind of likes me, but I'm just not sure. Any advice would be helpful! Thanks!

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Originally Posted by jcmarie2323

So I like this guy. he is so nice, and hilarious, and hot, too. He has an amazing singing voice. We were recently both accepted to a prestigious high school and will be spending the next four years together. Only problem is...he might be gay. I dont think so, because we spend lots of time together, and the other kids tht are going to our high school next year already think tht we are dating. hes held my hand, hugged me, and we talk a lot. at my school, we are both in the theater concentration. i dont think hes gay, but the majority of the other guys in theater are gay. it seems like he kinda likes me, but im just not sure. Any advice would be helpful! Thanks!

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He probably isn't if u guys spend so much tim together and it probably just happened that all the other guys are gay that doesn't mean he is

I'm sure as your friendship grows he will either tell you or you will know one way or the other.
Just enjoy the friendship.

He would probably tell u if he was and u guys spend a lot of time together who knows.he likes u and it is obvious that he does that's what my boyfriend does to me.if u guys could go on for hours talking would u?? not just one hour more like 4 hours.if u would than or if he would then he's probably not gay

I had a similar situation. My friend was in theater, we spent every day together, and he constantly made gay jokes to me. He wasn't good with girls and I assumed that he had a crush on me. I was going through a horribly tough time keeping my thoughts to myself. Eventually I broke down and wrote everything in a letter to him. It turned out that he wasn't into me but the relief I got was incredible. I ended up getting over him within a month after I found out too. It is always better to ask than to wait and wonder.