I am going out with this boy at the moment and another boy in his class asked him who he was going out with? And he said me of course and then he also said why are you going out with her she is fat? My friend who is a girl over heard this conversation so she went up to him and said why are you saying one of my closest friends is fat and she isn't if she is fat you're bloody obese, Then my boyfriend also said stuff to him. But I don't now now if my boyfriend still loves me anymore? He has told me he does love me but I don't know. And the boy who is also calling me fat is weird and ginger as people say. I have only ever spoke to this boy once over Facebook. Am I just being paranoid? Should I just ignore it and move on? But I don't want to lose my boyfriend over it because I love him to bits. I have lost half a stone because I used to be quite chubby but I have now lost weight but I still get called fat. But now I have a boyfriend.

Olivia x

Yes, you are being paranoid. Yes, just ignore it. You do know how immature boys can be until they get into their 20s, right?

Ignore it -- if your boyfriend leaves or doesn't like you because of something another boy said then you don't want him anyway and he didn't truly care about you. My guess is that he's sometimes swayed by friends but that's all normal when you're in school. Don't be a bully yourself, gingers and "Fat" people are just like you -- they can get their feelings hurt too.
And remember: if someone calls you names, - it says more about how they feel than about you. (They feel bad about themselves)

If your boyfriend is still with you and saying he loves you, why would someone else saying that you are fat affect his mind? Keep at your relationship, feel confident in yourself... what anyone else thinks does not matter. Now if YOU are feeling a little on the heavy side, eat healthier and get more exercise.

I'm not the kind of person to bully people in the first place normally it is the thee way round lol my friend who stuck for me has Bieng bullied before that is why she told me to say that but I never see this boy on the first place at school so I tought I was just Bieng parnoid and plus it carn't hurt them what I look like so I don't get what there problem is + I have a flat tummy beacause I have lost weight already I jut have a beyonce bum as my mum says and middle size thighs is that fat?
Olivia x

The advice u gave me was good I'm just going to forget about it what I look like doesn't have an affect on him so I don't get what his problem is and me and my boyfriend are still together and no my friends tell me I aren't fat anyway so I shpuldn't worry so I aren't and I have a flat belly with a beyonce bum and quite middle size thighs thanks for you help
Olivia x

It doesn't matter who says what, as long as you are happy with yourself. I wouldn't let what strangers say bother you. Or shake the faith you have in yourself. They might just be jealous, or plain screwed up. Or having a bad day, or week, or life. Who cares?

If your boyfriend truly loves you, he wouldn't care about what other people say and more than that he wouldn't care about if your overwieght or not. If he's choosing to stay with you and also said stuff to that guy then I think he still loves u

Just ignore it! Some people just need to learn how to let things go. If you ignore their stupid comments then they'll see it's not bothering you and hopefully stop.