So my boyfriend and I recently got back together, we are actually boyfriend girlfriend yet because he says he wants to take it slow... I barley ever see him because we both have very different work schedules or he is at the gym or relaxing at home. He has recently started answering my text messages by saying "ok" or "lol" and so I asked him what his problem was and then he said to me "i dont want to have full blown convo's in text messages anymore" then I said "well you don't call or are to busy to :/ so basically we will never talk" then he said "you talk about stuff i don't really care about"... by this going on seriously I feel like I'm just here to be his hook up buddy... does anyone have advice? :(

Honestly, thee is notother way to put my answer then bluntly. Either see him more and get serious about this relationship, or be done. It's what is best for you both... a relationship that doesn't involve communication or contact is unhealthy; it is unwhole.
Love takes time to understand. Bear that in mind.

Stop "hooking up" with him if he can't find the time to have a conversation with you.
Is the hooking up sex? What is "taking it slow" if you're having sex?

Him and I talked about everything I told him if he wants to be with me then we have to communicate and he told me he agrees and feels that before we have sex again we should worry about the communication part of our relationship. He also apologized but he has been really stressed out lately with trying to get into a police department and stuff and it felt that by me talking about my problems in my life I was stressing him out because he wanted to be there for me but couldn't because he had his own problems...