:confused: I have a physical therapist and he sometimes flirts. I am attracted to him but I am not sure if he really likes me. He has never asked me out , but will often compliment me. He has a party planning event and asked me to one of his events. We talked a little at the event but he still didn't make a move. He sometimes tells me personal things, but never goes as far as ask me out. Last week, he called to wish me a happy valentine's day which really surprised me. Is he just being nice or does he have some interest. I have made it known that I am completely unattached. He is not married and I am pretty sure that he does not have a steady girlfriend.

If you think he is interested, what should I do? By the way he is gorgeous and everyone seems to really like him. I think he is accustomed to women approaching him, but I am painfully shy.
Please help

I think he might have some interest... but is he probably waiting for a "green light" from you? Maybe...

You should probably try to be less shy around him and positively respond, if you see what I mean. Maybe he sees that you're shy but he might also interpret it as lack of interest. Therefore, he won't make his move until he'll make sure you're interested too.

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Originally Posted by victorious

:confused: i have a physical therapist and he sometimes flirts.

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I don't know but is that appropriate? Plus it seems to be a possibility to wind up in an uncomfortable situation down the road.

That being said it sounds like there might be some attraction but he can't really ask you out considering the position he's in. If I were you, I would continue to take it slow and just continue to see what he does and how he acts. Assuming your therapy has a end date maybe you could ask him after the last therapy session if he would like to do something sometime.

Yea go for it girl =P trust me, I'm a guy, n he, is interested. Probably just waiting for a green light from you. Look neither of you want to wait around forever so just ask him out for a drink or something. You could say its as a thank you for being such a good physio and if he says yes then you say 'its a date' and check the response. The worst that could happen is he could turn you down. But surely that's better than knowing you missed an opportunity. You have to grab these opportunities girl. He probably doesn't want to risk committing himself by asking you out if he doesn't know you like him for sure, so ask him out. Or make it absolutely crystal clear that you like him. Hope it helps - Taz

He seems to be checking you out. Let him. You can be receptive, but don't fall all over him. He is your therapist, so don't forget you have a businesss relationship also, so for now let him lead and see what happens. Now you could make sure of the rules before this get to far along because you don't want to mix romance and business at his job. Go slow and check it out.

Thanks for all of the responses. I briefly terminated my therapy sessions ( for maybe 2 months) and I didn't hear from him during that time. Although I did see him in a social session and he was again very friendly, but made no moves. When I resumed my sessions, he told me that he was so happy that I was going to be returning. Since that time he has shared some personal issues with me and we chat and there is the occasional flirt. If I ask him for coffee or to have a drink, I am afraid that he will reject me and make for very uncomfortable therapy sessions. I think he is trying to be professional but he works as an independent therapist so there are really no rules with regards to dating clients. Maybe he is just being nice or flirting in order to keep my business. Your thoughts??

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Maybe he is just being nice or flirting in order to keep my business. Your thoughts??

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I think your right for now.

Yes definitely do not ask him out.
If a man is interested enough he will ask you out.

I think you should just keep doing what your doing for now. Continue to see if anything happens. Let it build then maybe he will ask you out but don't wait for it.

I would let him pursue you...