Hello.Am 43 he is 42 we are friends as he would say.
In 6 months we have had sex 4 times and only when he wants to ,if I ask him he says no .Yet we talk and text a lot.. we don't live together ,I don't want to be his girlfriend ,but I do LOVE him a lot .Why is he acting this way?

Seems to be a one way street and seems you are being used by him. You don't want to be his g/f but you love him a lot?

He is acting that way because he is a player.

Sounds like you don't actually have much experience with men.

Am confussed about him that is why I say I don't want to be his girlfrien