Ask Me Help Desk - My ex-girlfriend said we could still kiss

She started to talk about last week,she asked me if I feel better or something what I think
I said it better than before because we text,talk and stuff..
But she said she still don't feel the same way like we used to..
Then she started saying I was really annoying last weekend,because she said text. Like not
Text everyday ask her what she is doing and stuff... she thinks we should try to be friends first..
And I was like.. maybe that's true , and if that's what she wants I can't do anything about it..
Because I can't say like no I don't want to be friends , I want to be more than friends and stuff..
She said if we be friends we could still make out and stuff.. I was like are you talking about the movie
Friends with benift?. like just go to a movie and then make out..

"she kissed me on the cheek when we are talking i did it too"

She said "yeah" but if she doesn't feel like it she would push me off or something like that...
I don't know how can we do that.. coz we date before but she kiss one of her really good friend once(a buddy of mine,they are good friends, like brother and sister.. ) and she kissed her ex once at a party after they broke up.. I guess she's trying to show me this is going to work and stuff..

I talked to her a little bit before we said goodbye.. I hug her and kiss her again on the cheek.. I don't know if she feels weird about it.. because it was a really close one(we were kind of like a couple,but we are not anymore.. )

What should I do?. should I still do it or not...

This girl gets around. Do you want to be one of her many kissing buddies?

She's a bit easy. I'd leave it be, tell her you're not interested, and find someone that wants more than just the occasional romp.

I think you will be hurt by all this mess. She does not want a boy friend, sounds like she just wants to mess around indiscriminately. I don't think you want that.
Leave her alone.

Well, we only date for 2 months. And she's from brazil I'm from taiwan..
We are both leaving ,going back home next month, we talked about what we should do one time on a Saturday and after that day everythings kind of change
We didn't talk,text,viber, even hang out .it was like that for 3 weeks.. we didn't do the same thing like we used to... and then last week she said she want to try to make this works if not we are going to break up and be friends.. then we broke up this week.

Today I talked to her for a really long time, we talk like friends, we joke around, making fun of each other, about our life, our friends and stuff like friends do,like everything... it was good, because it was better than not talking to her.. but she kissed me on the cheek about 5 times when she said something mean to me.. (but she's joking,and then she kissed me on the cheek because I was mad.. if you know what I mean.. ) it wasn't like friends.. but after we talk, I tried to kiss her on the cheek too. But she moved away.. I don't know why but it was weird and awkward

I don't know what to do.. still talk to her , just like friends.. don't think about too much?

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Originally Posted by Alty

This girl gets around. Do you want to be one of her many kissing buddies?

She's a bit easy. I'd leave it be, tell her you're not interested, and find someone that wants more than just the occasional romp.

Well, we only date for 2 months. And she's from brazil I'm from taiwan..
We are both leaving ,going back home next month, we talked about what we should do one time on a Saturday and after that day everythings kind of change
We didn't talk,text,viber, even hang out .it was like that for 3 weeks.. we didn't do the same thing like we used to... and then last week she said she want to try to make this works if not we are going to break up and be friends.. then we broke up this week.

Today I talked to her for a really long time, we talk like friends, we joke around, making fun of each other, about our life, our friends and stuff like friends do,like everything... it was good, because it was better than not talking to her.. but she kissed me on the cheek about 5 times when she said something mean to me.. (but she's joking,and then she kissed me on the cheek because I was mad.. if you know what I mean.. ) it wasn't like friends.. but after we talk, I tried to kiss her on the cheek too. But she moved away.. I don't know why but it was weird and awkward

I don't know what to do.. still talk to her , just like friends.. don't think about too much?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I think you will be hurt by all this mess. She does not want a boy friends, sounds like she just want to mess around indiscriminately. I don't think you want that.
Leave her alone.

Well, we only date for 2 months. And she's from brazil I'm from taiwan..
We are both leaving ,going back home next month, we talked about what we should do one time on a Saturday and after that day everythings kind of change
We didn't talk,text,viber, even hang out .it was like that for 3 weeks.. we didn't do the same thing like we used to... and then last week she said she want to try to make this works if not we are going to break up and be friends.. then we broke up this week.

Today I talked to her for a really long time, we talk like friends, we joke around, making fun of each other, about our life, our friends and stuff like friends do,like everything... it was good, because it was better than not talking to her.. but she kissed me on the cheek about 5 times when she said something mean to me.. (but she's joking,and then she kissed me on the cheek because I was mad.. if you know what I mean.. ) it wasn't like friends.. but after we talk, I tried to kiss her on the cheek too. But she moved away.. I don't know why but it was weird and awkward

I don't know what to do.. still talk to her , just like friends.. don't think about too much?

I think you were just someone to mess around with. Once you go back to your homes you probably won't hear from her again.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I think you were just someone to mess around with. Once you go back to your homes you probably won't hear from her again.

Yeah maybe your right.. we started dating after a limo party.. like we were really close friends, we talked about everything, and then I don't know how she start liking me.. after that limo party we start dating.. it was weird.. like our story was so weird.. we both don't know how this happened..

But I guess your maybe right.. maybe I just someone that she like.. she doesn't even know how and why.. :(

She seems to not take people or relationships seriously. Your separating is probably the best thing for you.