24 year old son stays druink quit his job and does not pay rent. How do I get him to leave. We live in Minnesota

You give him a 30 day notice to vacate. If he doesn't leave by the deadline, you go to court for an eviction order.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

You give him a 30 day notice to vacate. If he doesn't leave by the deadline, you go to court for an eviction order.

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tks

Make sure you are comfortable with the fact that he may never come back.
I have a phd (from experience only) in alcoholic sons and the one that came back in a box.
Not trying to be over dramatic or scare tactics-just the facts.
Does he drive--when he has been drinking? Just a matter of time.
Has he ever had professional treatment? Decide on these kinds of issues now -- it might be too late later. My situation wasn't exactly the same (similar) and we didn't know there was a problem - let alone how serious it was but the types of things that I have suggested that you think about before making your final decision are exactly the kinds of things I have been thinking about since we lost our son going on two years ago. It is none of my business how you handle it but I would be remiss if I didn't let you know where this could lead.