I have always been cheated on in the past, I'm with a new boyfriend who has never done anything to make me distrust him.

But I feel like when I go out and sometimes get drunk I get close to getting with other peopls ee because ei need to get there first?

How can I overcome this.

Jade K. x

I know the feeling well. It happens to many of us who have been cheated on. Me and my girl both feel the same way about one another. Now I would say first and foremost if you feel like you can't completely trust yourself when drinking, stop drinking. If it'll help you sit him down and say exactly what you feel. I sat my girlfriend down and told her that if she ever wanted me to leave she only had to say the word but that if she had ever felt anything for me she would say the word before cheating on me. That helps me. It also helped that in return I gave my word that I would never cheat. I think of that oath everyday especially when I feel weak. Just stay out of temptation and let him know.

Its really hard because your emotions are all over the place but although you have been cheated on you need to keep your own respect.You need to believe you are better than the cheater and understand that it is a circle that will not be broken unless you also stop thinking of cheating.
Good luck

Cheating is completely up to you, sure temptation is there for everyone, but cheating is a personal choice, so make it now, and stand by it. This might be the only guy that doesn't cheat on you, are you willing to jeopardize that?