Hi I am from Belize. I dated my husband for 3 years and we have been married for 51/2 years. Up to last week I thought everything was fine but for my husband it has never been fine. Last week why husband got mad at me because he says I like to open doors for other men to enter our relationship. My husband says that the way I look at those men and how I act whenever I see them makes him think that I like those men and want to have something with them. He says he is very hurt and he can't continue like this anymore. I love my husband with all my heart and never in the world the thought of cheating passed in my mind. I feol that that's the way I am. I really don't understand when he says that I want to cheat with other men just by the way I look at them. For every little thing he would tell me off for instance in the bus or taxi he would say that I am looking at the driver or conductor in a way that makes him think I want to flirt with them. Or at our job he would say the samething. Today I was talking with a parent from one of my students when my husband appeared and said that I was flirting with him. I really don't know what else to to. Pleas I need help in any ways I don't want my marriage to end.
Please Help me. I can't talk to him because when he gets mad he doesn't want to listen to me. Please please help me

Any man who picks holes like this has something going on, and I don't think it is you with something going on.

This behavior is typical of someone who is finding fault when the fault is their's alone.

Think back and maybe you can come up with any flirting he has done in the past.

The best thing to do is to talk to him. Take him out on a date and spend a day with him. Go to the movies. A day just for you two. Show him you love him more than ever and maybe his behavior will decease. If this continues I say it is diffenetly something with him. Goodluck!

Thanks for your advice!