should i leave my husband after 25 years
My husband and I have been married for 25 years and I have known him for 35 years. I met him when I was 16 and he was 17 years old. We always had a great relationship and marriage until he had an affair. I never got over his betrayal and don't trust him anymore. I have never forgiven him nor can I forget what he did to me. I would never cheat on him. He ruined everything that I valued most in my life. Once I started feeling happy again, his father died and he shut me out and started having an emotional affair with a former employee. Now all we do is fight, which is something we never did. My kids are relatively young and this is starting to affect them. I am currently a stay-at-home mom but was a professional until I stopped working. I don't have my own income and am dependent on his. If I leave, I will have nothing and my kids will be worse off. I just don't know what to do. Any suggestions?