I have been with this girl for 4 years. I am 21 and she is 20. We did everything together. She broke up with me and now is talking to another guy. She tells me that she still loves me and wants to be with me but doesn't know if we can because we did have some problems when we were together. So now she likes this new guy and they have been spending time together but then she tells me that we may still be together one day if I can show her I can be more patient (that was my problem). But everyday that I show her I can change, she is talking to this guy that she likes. I don't know what to do. It is tearing me apart knowing that this other guy is moving in on her. I guess I want advice. Thank you.

Leave her to this guy and don't allow her to keep you dangling on an invisible string.
Move on, she has.

She says she still loves you? If she really loves you, why would she put you through this? She dangles another guy in front of you, says she still has feelings, and expects you to not react to this. She has obviously moved on from you, and you should as well. I'm also going through a break up, and I'm just saying from experience don't let her pull you along, and then have her stay with this new guy and cut you off.

Thanks for the advice. I know what I have to do but its just so hard to do. Its like she's trying to hold on to me just in case it doesn't work out with this new guy. I'm so sick.

I know it's hard but you will get through this and we are here to help.