I had been grounded for a while and my boyfriend wasn't allowed over. But then one day I decided to ask my mom for birth control and we never really talked about it. A couple days later I asked if my boyfriend could come over. And she said yes. Well we were up in my room and we started getting sexual then it led to sex and every time I would hear the lightest noise I would stop just in case it was my mother. Well one time during it, I heard a noise and paused(not completely stop but paused) but I didn't think it was anything so I continued. Then a couple minutes later my mom walks in and yelling at my boyfriend to get out. Then we got in a huge fight after he left. And she put scratchs all over my arms three big scratchs on my chin and busted my lip. But I was screaming at her telling her I hate her and I never want to see her again. And I hate being here. And I wish she would leave me alone and shut up. And she was calling me a slut telling me that I'm a discrase to this family and telling me I was done with my boyfriend. Then my granny came and got me and I have been with her every sense that happend(the 16th) What Should I Do Now? Also, I Do not want to live with my mom. And I don't want to see her or talk to her. But I don't want to stay with my granny where I will have to see my mom eventually. And that's something I don't want to do. What do I do now? Pleaseeeee Help! :(

How old are you? How old is your boyfriend?

Before I tell you how old I am, you can't turn me in right? Or get anybody in trouble can you?

That s not what we do here.
How old are you and your boy friend?

15&16...

I'm not going to excuse your mother but when you are a minor and you sneek and have sex in her home, you deal with the punishment. Your mother trusted you not to have sex and you betrayed that trust.
Are you and your boyfriend prepared to have and raise a baby?

Yeah, I Understand That But I Don't Want To Speak To Her Ever Again... &If I WAS To Become Pregnant; I Know We Could Do It! We Have Lots Of People TO Help Us. &We Both Have Jobs. We Could Do It.

You do realise that your mother could have your boyfriend charged with statutory RAPE!!
This is not a GAME any more.
You need to grow up and show your mother the respect that she deserves.
If you where to become pregnant, all this "help" you think you'll get will suddenly evaporate and you will only be left with your mother.
As parents are the only ones that will stand by you through thick and thin, no matter what.
Best thing to do is make your peace with your mother and do whatever it takes to make that happen.
YOU need her more then she needs you.

I'm surprised no one has brought up the fact that at 15, she actually BELIEVES that she can raise a child. Maybe emotionally but not financially. Now sweetheart I'm 19, I have a good paying job, and I couldn't afford one right now. Not even full time. If my girlfriend quit university and got a minimum wage job we could, but barely scrape by for the rest of our lives.

I'm sorry, but if you're that young and honestly think you can raise a child at that age you have a lot of growing up to do.

Just don't talk to her for a couple weeks, your mom is probably hurt right now

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Just don't talk to her for a couple weeks, your mom is probably hurt right now

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That's a freakin horrible idea. What she needs to do is have a sits down and TALK with her mother about what happened with her granny or her father present so if her mother tries to hurt her she will have support.