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She has been hurt a lot by guys tells me she doesn't want love right now she's afraid I'll walk out on her. She's afraid to fall in love she didn't even give me chance to get to know her and I'm the first guy that has been good to her help!

She barely broke up with her ex tells me she can't go out with me she needs time I'm moving too fast with her. Told her to give me a chance.

Well honestly she does need time.getting over a person is not easy.and if she's planning to go out with you she doesn't want to hurt you by still having feelings for the other guy.thats the reason she's asking for some time.let her get back up on her feet

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Originally Posted by Livinsince91

Girl has been hurt a lot by guys tells me she doesn't want love right now she's afraid to fall in love she didn't even give me chance to get to know her and I'm the first guy that has been good to her help!

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There's nothing you can do. I was in a similar case with my now 2 and a half year girlfriend. Took me almost 2 months, but I cared for her. All it takes is TIME, nothing more, nothing less.

Harshness Warning

Pressing a female for your own selfish needs, and ignoring her own needs is not love, nor is it acceptable behavior.

Now back off and let her heal!!!!!!

What about what she said are you not getting?
She needs time to heal, so give it to her. Back off.

Ever since she send me that text about needing time I haven't contacted her so yea been 4 days ain't sheet though I really care for her sucks though She told me that I made her forget about him made her happy until he back wanting her sucks...

Rejections suck, but it won't kill you. Just leave her alone.

Yep that's what I'm doing going with the flow Timing was off

If she just went through a break up, then back off man, the last thing you want to be is the rebound. There are other girls, move on, this one is not ready for you, and even if she was, you need to keep your forceful tactics out of any relationship, friend, or girlfriend.

Yea I'm stupid for putting pressure on her saying things that are emotional so um I'm backing off and let her be but she said that when she's ready she would be willing to go with me slowly so at her pace people don't get a lot of second chances but she is giving me one just TIMING is key...

No, not stupid. Just not thinking clearly.

Lol yes it just sucks waiting I really care about it will pay off soon enough hopefully

It will.

I was the other guy while she was with me her ex wanted her back guess she still had feelings for him hopefully she wasn't using me but I guess she chose me because she's done with him and needs time to um heal and all this bull

This should tell you there needs to be time between relationships.