I have been unsatisfied with my weight for 3 years. Help! I'm a 123 pound 14 year old female

At 14 you are still growing.
The only realistic method is decrease of calorific intake and increase in aerobic activity.
(Less food, more exercise)

And how tall are you, that is a great weight for someone over 5 feet tall.

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