I sit by the guy I like in 3 of my classes, and I try to talk to him, but I am afraid I will say something stupid and I will ruin my chances with him :/ So I just don't talk to him, but I really want to! Help! :(

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Originally Posted by cheesey14

I sit by the guy I like in 3 of my classes, and I try to talk to him, but I am afraid I will say something stupid and I will ruin my chances with him :/ So I just don't talk to him, but I really want to! Help! :(

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Just talk about things we like for example most men like cars & trucks

It is going to be all right, just slow down and relax. If he is in 3 of your classes then listen to what he talks about and find something that is in common.

If you don't have anything in common, then just walk up to him, when he is alone, and start the conversation off with "I know you know this, but we are in 3 classes together and i have wanted to talk to you for 3 weeks but I am scared too" I can bet he is going to say "why were you scared?" And, guess what... you are having a conversation. If you mess up bad just say this "see i keep messing up...dang i told you i was scared" Then you smile, look away and pretend to talk under your breath IN A JOKING WAY saying stuff like "that was stupid, why did i say that?" The conversation will continue with you both.

Just don't make an uneasy conversation... like talking about your ex, or sex.

Just talk, if he likes you he'll listen, if he really likes you, it's impossible to make a fool out of yourself. Just be yourself, if he can't accept the fact that you are you, then he's not worth wasting your time, and don't fret if that's the case. There's always others.