I'm 19 and my boyfriends 21 we have been dating forb8 monhs now and he barely ever wants to have sex with me I'm lucky to get it on my day off which is like once a week and I'm taking on a second job so ill be working even more. We live together and he tells me he's just not a horny guy. And I'm not fat. No offense but I have guys better looking then my own hit on me at work and I just brush them off. He barely does anythn other than work. And we also live together. I didn't pressure him into it he asked to move in with me and I have asked if he wanted an open relationship because I don't like feeling lonely and sad or ugly. What is it?

Dear lonelymontana he's only doing what he thinks is right have you ever told him storys of guys having sex with you and then leaving or him tell you that he may just be afraid of you leaving him if he does have sex with you. And is he catholic does he believe sex before marriage is wroung

Hi lonelymontanna,

I think in your situation you need to confront your boyfriend and ask straight up why he doesn't want sex its an obvious answer which you have probably tried previously, but try again and tell him by not wanting to have sex with you that it is making you upset, and for god sake DO NOT tell him about your past sex life, as this will end in tears it's the last thing most men want to hear!

Hope this was of some sort of help to yourself, if you have any further questions I'll be happy to answer them. :)

p.s I've not really ever heard of a man not wanting sex with his partner it is generally the latter, or was in my case anyway.

Andy