My husband and I are grandparents of a 16 yr. old grandson that we raised since he was a1 1/2 yrs old. We also raised his sister whom is now 21. He was diagnois with ADD. When he got about 12 or 13 he quit taking medicine. Lord, we have been through hell. You cannot win an argument with him, cause he is always right and he has an awful temper. When he gets mad with you he is going to tear up something. He has beat just about every door in our home. Just last week he got so angry at me that he beat the devil out of my door. You just don t know what he will destroy behind your back either. He tells he lll do it too. My husband is 74 and I am 69 yrs. Old and it is taking a toll on us.. We love him very much and you can t help but feel sorry for him because he s never had his parents take up much time with him.Do you have any suggestions or help that we might could get online.