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  • May 17, 2012, 10:21 PM
    musicaddict0987
    Boyfriend troubles
    Okay So My Boyfriend And I Have Been Together For A Little More Than A Month And To Day A Friend Was Telling Me That He Wasn't Sure If Were Together Anymore . We Always See Each other And Even Though I May Not Send Him A Text Message OR Something To Say Good morning Or That I'm Just Thinking About Him Doesn't Mean I Don't Love Him , And A Few Other Things : He Says I'm Abusive Which I'm Not , I Ask " Too '' Many Questions , And How It Makes Him Mad When I Ask Him Things Like '' What's The Matter ? '' .Is This Normal For Relationships ? Am I Blowing This Out Of Proportion Or Is There An Underlying Issue I'm Over Looking ?
  • May 18, 2012, 04:57 AM
    Homegirl 50
    After a month he is telling you how things are as he sees them. Is he saying he wants to break up?
  • May 18, 2012, 05:35 AM
    musicaddict0987
    He Might Be . Then That Would Explain Why He He Has Been Asking So Distant This Past Week ?
  • May 18, 2012, 05:39 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Well that's probably it. You know he's not happy with you so why don't you leave the relationship.
  • May 18, 2012, 05:56 AM
    musicaddict0987
    I Mean Should But Because Until We Really Have A Discussion I Don't Want Too Ruin Something . Sound A Li ttle Crazy But Hey... :(
  • May 18, 2012, 06:30 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Why does he think you are abusive? If someone tells you that, there is a problem.
  • May 18, 2012, 10:00 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    This isn't a healthy relationship. He is far too immature, I can tell by his need to use other people to convey messages to his GIRLFRIEND. Get out before you've wasted too much time. Seriously.
  • May 18, 2012, 02:35 PM
    musicaddict0987
    @Homegirl50 He Thinks Im Abusive Because He Called Me Out Of My Name Once And I Hit Him So Ive Gotten The Title Abusive . @ C0bra_M3nace You All Are Right . I Think It's a Lost Cause...
  • May 18, 2012, 04:42 PM
    Homegirl 50
    You are. You don't hit somebody because they call you a name. Had he hit you, he would have been called an abuser.
    He has told you what he thinks of the relationship and I think that is at least honesty.
  • May 18, 2012, 05:09 PM
    musicaddict0987
    It Was Only Once Not That Im Trying To Make An Excuse Of It Because I Don't Like Being Hit Myself . Monday He Said That He Felt This Was His First Good Relationship And After Monday Things Started To Change Drastically..
  • May 18, 2012, 05:34 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Well maybe he has his eye on someone else, or he's just not feeling the same about you. This relationship may be over

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