I've had friends who've cut there wrist "Cutters." I thought of it but I was scared that I might cut a vein or something(what a marshmallow... _... )so I didn't I started sticking needles in my arm no drugs just needles and I've tried to out myself I really do enjoy some moments in life but the worst one just make we want to drop ______ I keep secrets from my friends so they won't judge me but they think I'm leaving them out and call me fake and say things... this is not that great of a topic but any suggestions?

Talk to parents, counselor someone and get professoinal help. This cutting or sticking does not solve any issue what so ever, in fact it can really make future issues worst.

Please get help

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Talk to parents, counselor someone and get professoinal help. This cutting or sticking does not solve any issue what so ever, in fact it can really make future issues worst.

Please get help

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yeah I do see a guidance counselor but I just feel like I'm trapped and I want to SCREAM I cry every day thinking of the next day and what might happen my arm is all red I'm embarressed I woke up this mornig and put on a short sleeved shirt I lieralyy forgot about it then I looked down and wanted to destroy everything at the moment but I know its only my fault for doing this... but I have reasons that
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make me want to I'm only in middle school and my stress level is like that high

Sometimes a guidance councelor isn't always enough. Seems to me like you're dealing with depression. Talk to your parents about the issues, I'm positive your parents will want to help and not belittle you because of it. Let them know you want help so they can help you. There are specialists everywhere that deal with cases specific to these and they do wonders. Both my sister in-laws had the same problems going through high school, and they made through it. It was tough, but they did it. So can you, you just need to believe in yourself and stop worrying about what others say or think.

The thing is I'm scared to talk to my mom about it and my dad Humph... I really do want to talk to someone when I talk to the guidance counselor it helps but soon as something bad happens again it all rushes back its like an adrenaline rush that I can't control trust me I don't like having problems I know everyone has them but I'm only in ?Th grade sheesh how much can I take I really don't like being secretion cause I want my friends to tell me everything but they re groping to want me to do the same and I don't know it they'll judge me or not so I just don't say-anything..?

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the thing is im scared to talk to my mom about it and my dad Humph....... i really do want to talk to someone when i talk to the guidance counselor it helps but soon as something bad happens again it all rushes back its like an adrenaline rush that i can't control trust me i don't like having problems i know everyone has them but im only in ?Th grade sheesh how much can i take i really don't like being secretion cause i want my friends to tell me everything but they re groping to want me to do the same and i don't know it they'll judge me or not so i just don't say-anything ...???

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You can't be scared to talk to your parents, about ANYTHING. When I was young I was the same way, but as I got older I realized my parents didn't care what the problem was, they cared more that I had asked and wanted the direction or help. That's what they're there for, to help you learn, guide you in the right direction and even help you find the help you need to get past things such as this. Please talk to your parents, tell them how you feel, after that, It's not my right to say what you need It's totally up to them, but they're older and wiser and will know what needs to be done. If depression is the case here, it's not something to play with, it's serious and can do a great deal of harm.

Thanks... and you said its not Ur right to say what I need but I would've put this up here if I didn't want to hear (read) anything that you are suggestion or want to suggest it's okay cause I really want to hear it :)

I gave u an reputation point

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Now that's more like it. That shows you have control over yourself and how you act. The same with the needles. Take back your power. Stop with the self abuse. I know you can do it. (Also, please stop with the texting so can read what you write. I'm old and feeble! Give me the power to read your posts.)

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thanks...and u said its not Ur right to say what i need but i would've put this up here if i didn't want to hear (read) anything that you are suggestion or want to suggest it's okay cause i really want to hear it :)

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If you were my child, and you came to me with those problems, the first thing I'd do would be to look around and find a specialist, or psychiatrist. Let them diagnose, or find out what's wrong. I'm not assuming you have depression but It sounds like it, and you need to find out if it is. My mother has lived with depression for as long as I can remember and it's very dangerous.

Listen, cutting, sticking, drinking, taking pills... it all leads down the street of no-where. I have found out that once people get bored of something... ie cutting... they try other things. Once you get bored of sticking yourself, you might try something else. Just stop now, talk to your parents, find a real church, talk to your best friends parent... something. There is so so so much to life that it is simply amazing. You're young and you have the time to become anything you want in this world. Maybe when you overcome this, you can help those going through the same issue.

It is going to be okay, just slow down, relax and look at your future. You have so so much to live for. Talk to God, he is always there.

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Listen, cutting, sticking, drinking, taking pills...it all leads down the street of no-where. I have found out that once people get borad of something...ie cutting...they try other things. Once you get board of sticking yourself, you might try something else. Just stop now, talk to your parents, find a real church, talk to your best friends parent...something. There is soo soo soo much to life that it is simply amazing. Your young and you have the time to become anything you want in this world. Maybe when you over come this, you can help those going through the same issue.

It is going to be okay, just slow down, relax and look at your future. You have soo soo much to live for. Talk to God, he is always there.

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I for one am offended by this post. This is no place to try and convert.

Convert? Wow, you have some nerve. You flat forgot the real problem, the problem is her situation and what she is going through. She is headed down the wrong path. She is wanting to try things that would bring harm to her body. She is calling out for help and doesn't know it. And you attack me simply because I said "talk to God"? Wow, that's crazy.


We have a young person that "started sticking needles in [her] arm" and wanted to cut herself but was "scared that [she] might cut a vein or something". There is a real problem here and she is headed down the wrong path. In my personally opinion, if she can get REAL help to help her NOT follow the path that she is going down then it is a win win situation.

But it is cool, you can I can have our own beliefs and my belief is that God is the way, the truth and the life.

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Convert? Wow, you have some nerve. You flat forgot the real problem, the problem is her situation and what she is going through. She is headed down the wrong path. She is wanting to try things that would bring harm to her body. She is calling out for help and doesnt know it. And you attack me simply because I said "talk to God"? Wow, thats crazy.


We have a young person that "started sticking needles in [her] arm" and wanted to cut herself but was "scared that [she] might cut a vein or something". There is a real problem here and she is headed down the wrong path. In my personally opinion, if she can get REAL help to help her NOT follow the path that she is going down then it is a win win situation.

But it is cool, you can I can have our own beliefs and my belief is that God is the way, the truth and the life.

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There is a fine line between affering advice to follow god, and telling someone too. Maybe you did not realize it, but you were telling, not advising.

I know,I know ,I know but I'm just paranoid and scared that my mom will spaz out and then I'm just going to get more and more stressed and depressed and that's not helping any one especially not me I'm the type of girl that worry's about what others think of me I take in consideration of other people thoughts and not mines

I know exactly how you feel ommi. I was the same in middle school, and a small part of high school. I never got to the point of self inflicted pain, but it was hard. You are at a more difficult point, if you do continue and you don't tell anyone, no one can help you. Your mother shouldn't spazz, she's there to help you. If your mother spazzes because your cutting yourself, then she's got no idea what she's doing.

You have to try, no matter how hard it is. You can do it.

I'm just so scared

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im just so scared

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I believe in you ommi, you can do it.

Fine.ill try but if she go's crazy then what should I runaway,? I'm like so hydrated over things that really make no sense but ill try promise :) if I don't talk to her ill talk to my aunt cause she is very understandable... ;)

I'm not even sure if I'm bold enough to run away but... if I really had to I could pull it off (im not that bold though)