I was in a relationship since one and a half year, my boyfriend did not respect me, but he always claimed he loved me. He was at my disposal whenever I required help. He used to say before us getting in a relation he felt for me since past 2 yrs and his only wish was to get me in his life. Gradually when I got in the relationship, one month it was a fairy tale, but who knew after that it will be a worst night mare for me!
He doubted in me because in past I had been in a very serious relationship I cleared him, no, now I don't feel for him. This topic dragged quite a few months, and then I got ill, and he cared a lot at that time, but due to acute illness I use to remain irritated and low, because of that he made my cry and run behind him for 1 complete month. He never used to make me stop from crying. In fact he rather use to walk away or disconnect phone in my face and say this is your routine job! Keep crying!
Whenever I use to do anything special for him he never appreciated instead made me cry and weep and use to say how did you go somewhere without telling me, you know I hate all this. We never use to meet except college, no dates no romance nothing at all, because he enjoyed my company with group of friends. He claimed he gets bored alone!
He never trusted me, and I had blind faith on him! He was an over possessive, didn't gave me my space, I was not allowed to roam beyond 7! Or freak with drones all day, make new friends, or even wear the clothes I use to wish to. He even doubted on a brother sis relationship, just because I deleted to conversation! Because of him I've been hospitalized several times. And he did not care. He makes me feel low, makes me cry then one day someone who used to like me in the past became my friend, secretively! I did not tell my boyfriend for 3 to 4 months later out of anger and his deeds I told him because he was crying, so he claimed that I cheated upon him! I got a side affair and what not. I told him he was just a friend, my boyfriend said why only that guy liked you... I simply said because he was a convenient option! That is it!
Now I'm no longer with my friend because I did not wish to betray my boyfriend. My boyfriend says he does not wish to be with me anymore. And now he treats me worse than a slave. He talks rudely! He treats me bad! What should I do now? I'm in midst of my exams and I love him so much.
Where am I at fault! Just because I made a friend without telling him, OK it’s a mistake I accept, but does that mean he can now treat me the way he wishes to?
