I'm dating my friend that I have known for a long time and we've been dating for 3 months but I like a guy that I had my first dance with and only known for a year! I think about breaking up but he was dumped but his ex and I don't want to put him through that twice. What do I do?

It is better to dumb a person than to stay with them because you don't want to hurt them. You are already lying and hurting because your heart is elsewhere.

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Originally Posted by Kiranade

I'm dating my friend that i have known for a long time and we've been dating for 3 months but i like a guy that i had my first dance with and only known for a year! I think about breaking up but he was dumped but his ex and i don't want to put him through that twice. What do i do?

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You might think it's kinder to not put him "through that twice" -- but it's not kind to not be truthful about your feelings and then dump him later or not really be in the relationship with him because you're so busy thinking about some other guy. (unless you both agreed to see other people and take things slow)