My fiancé told me that he want to have sex once a week after marriage. It let me feel upset.. I am 29 and he is 34. I have no previous experience but from what I read over internet specially for new couple marriage they do it daily or the desire would be high specially in the first months.. I wonder why he said so.. he is not working hard to related with tiredness.. and he is saying I am so attractive so is that normal?

How often do you want sex? Tell him. So if your sex drive is higher than his sex drive is he willing to pleasure you without penetration? One step at time... no need to over-load him with a barrage of questioning or to start reading more into his statement than he simply doesn't want sex sex sex and then nothing for long periods. He could have meant he would like to have sex on a regular basis. If he has had prior experience, he's been down that road before and doesn't want mad passionate sex repeatedly over and over in the beginning and then not much in the middle or long term. By the way, did he give you an explanation? If not then ask him in a loving way and tell him how you feel. Perhaps you might be thinking you are not as desirable. Talk with him and stop any head chatter about not being good enough, desirable enough, pretty enough, sexy enough, etc. Also, does he communicate with you in conversations and allow you to reciprocate? Does he give you attention, is he affectionate, does he touch you in a non-sexual way, does he compliment you, do you feel safe with him physically and emotionally, does he say, I love you and want to spend quality time with you? Think about these things too because it's not all about sex only. It's the icing on the cake, but how often do you want to sit down and eat a whole cake covered with waves of sweet frosting over and over for days and days? It's like having an insatiable appetite which can lead to an addiction and never truly being satisfied physically, emotionally or spiritually? Enjoy your complete love journey…