My partner of a few years has a few female friends. He does have one that has previously asked him to be a father to her having a child. He said 'no'. She has asked again since we started dating and again he said 'no'. They are still friends and she only invites him out to dinner, lunch, movies etc and never includes me.

She is now pregnant to another male donor, but asks my partner to come to the medical appointments and ultra-sounds. Again I am never included or asked to be a part of it. She has even taken him to meet her parents for a dinner, again I am not included. She texts and calls him quite regularly. I am curious if this is OK. It doesn't sit well with me and wonder if I am being over the top.

I have male friends, but always come around to our house and my partner is a part of our friendships and he is now good friends with my male friends.

Its okay as long as he refuses her, because she is determined to get him to donate it seems!

Does your partner know how you feel? Why is he so involved in her life? He is the one who needs to say something to her or else he needs to start backing off on his level of involvement.