I had been dating a guy for eight months. He says he has commitment issues he's 45 and I'm 26. We had a good relationship but he broke up with me because he said we were at a point where we needed to move forward or break up. He claimed he didn't want to, but he did. I pleaded with him and finally he was like let's take a month off if it's meant to be then we will be together. After a month lets reevaluate where we are. That evening I joined a dating site and saw he had already been a member of it, so whatever. Well he figured out I was on the site as well. He sends me a message on the site I didn't respond to. Then texts my phone saying are you doing OK? I didn't respond, but it's like you don't want me so why does it even matter. Why do men do this? I just want to move on?

Then move on, he has. He broke up with you and you begged so he said, OK a month break. The man has moved on.

1st thing. I do like to give you 2 thumbs up and well done for you not to replying him. If you're replying him, he will think that he still has hope and he will think that you're desperate for him.

I think perhaps he just felt guilty when knew that you found out he is a member in dating site. This could be

1st thing. I do like to give you 2 thumbs up and well done for you not to replying him. If you're replying him, he will think that he still has hope and he will think that you're desperate for him.

I think perhaps he just felt guilty when knew that you found out he is a member in dating site. This could be one of the reason that he is breaking up with you because he would like to explore more variety.

So, you should continue with your good job... show your pride and dignity. Furthermore, though age is not a problem, however, why should you get an old jerk while you could get a better young jerk out there ;)