Three years ago, my ex and I separated. We tried getting back together, I even moved back in the house. He accused me of stealing his social security number. I thought it all had been cleared up, until just the other night. His wife called my roommate, told me that the police were looking for me, but she told my son and daughter in law that there was nothing to worry about. They would not come get me in Ar from Michigan. I came to Ar to stay with my daughter-in-law while my son is in deployment. We do not need this added stress, can I get a PPO against his wife, for causing this emotional stress, knowing my son is over in Afghanstain, she talks to him, and she knows where I am at. She also claims there are other people they put on the list that might have stolen the number, but I am main suspect for we were together then. I just want these people to leave me alone, stop causing drama, and get on with my life. If, it wasn't a big deal, then I would like to know why she made it a point to call my roommate and tell him about the police when she knows where I am. I am consdiering suing them for emotinal and mental stress, they also have my belongings, which I can't do anything about, but he can come into my home when I'm not there take these items, and signed a inhertience check that was made out to me, they told me since I was married at the time, they could not file forgery.

If you can prove what she has done has caused you actual money losses, you may sue them.

What about changing your phone number and not talking to her again. What about knowing that she is lying and laughing at her if you do for some stupid reason decide to talk to her.

How about hanging up or not answering if she calls. And if a crime was reported, of course you are the prime suspect, a wife or husband, exp a ex is always the first suspect, when my first wife was killed, I was the only suspect the police would ever look at, even after I proved I was on a government mission in another country, they just thought the government was covering it up and would not even look for another suspect.

So it is not a lie to say you are a suspect. And you know it is a lie, if the "police" are looking for you, that means you were changed, not just a suspect.

One does not "steal" a SSN. One uses a SSN fraudulently to obtain credit or as identification. So how was his SSN used fraudulently? What proof is there that you used it?

As for a PPO against his wife. Sounds to me like she was giving you a heads up.