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  • May 11, 2012, 02:16 AM
    dannyboy47
    Long distance relationship
    Im 16 and in love with a girl, though I don't know if I want to be.
    I went out with her 2 years ago and she broke up with me 3 months later, saying that she couldn't handle the distance.
    Last weekend one of my mates organised a camping trip and the people invited included me and this girl. Now after two years I thought all of my feeling for her would have left me, but I was wrong. That night we kissed and snuggled together and she fell asleep in my arms; I felt incredible and didn't believe what was happening. Now after the trip I realise that I am now madly in love with her, but I know that I cannot date her. Since last time we dated she has moved even further away. If last time she dumped because of the distance, what now if the distance is greater.
    My question is, what should I do. Should I go out with her, take a chance and hope she doesn't dump me again. Or should I not worry about and try to forget about that weekend, even though I cannot stop thinking about her.
    What should I do?
  • May 11, 2012, 08:34 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You say you love her but you don't want to. The circumstances that caused the first break up are still there,
    You don't do anything and you will get over this again.
  • May 11, 2012, 05:26 PM
    leftwondering86
    I've been in something similar; we went to different universities. She wanted to party with her new "guy" friends and still want me at home for when she came to visit.
    Long story short: long distance rarely works and someone always gets caught short in the end

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