Hi, I am 29 years old , and a single mother to a beautiful baby girl. My boyfriend and I broke up recently after a nasty argument. We always fight but this was the worst ever. Needless to say, he rushed to his siblings and now it's a war- me against them. I feel he could have handled this better , if not for our pathetic relationship then at least for amicable relations for the sake of our daughter. His family now hate me whilst I haven't breathed a word of his nastiness to my family. I'm failing to understand why he'd do that. I mean I've never heard any of his siblings come running to him for him to 'sort' out their relationship woos. Is he simply childish or maybe he just is not interested in making this relationship work? Or am I being silly and seeing too much in a simple matter?

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Originally Posted by joyfulme

hi, i am 29 years old , and a single mother to a beautiful baby girl. my boyfriend and i broke up recently after a nasty argument. we always fight but this was the worst ever. needless to say, he rushed to his siblings and now its a war- me against them. i feel he could have handled this better , if not for our pathetic relationship then at least for amicable relations for the sake of our daughter. his family now hate me whilst i havent breathed a word of his nastiness to my family. i'm failing to understand why he'd do that. i mean i've never heard any of his siblings come running to him for him to 'sort' out their relationship woos. is he simply childish or maybe he just is not interested in making this relationship work? or am i being silly and seeing too much in a simple matter?

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What did you say to him during this argument... because arguments are never one sided both sides share blame in them. And reading your post... you aren't accepting any responsibility in this.

I'm willing to guess you crossed some invisible line and said some things that went way overboard.

We all have our particular things that were are particularly sensitive about... and they aren't the same for everyone.