We have been going out for 3 months and have broke up once for a few days recently. I told him I wanted a break because I told my friend we should take a break from our bfs for a week she is in a horrible relationship they've broken up 11 times and she always complains about it to me. They break up again and again but she says she loves him which is their business but she asks we for advice all the time I knew she wouldn't take a break for a actual long period so I said I would do it with her.

I thought it wouldn't hurt to take a break from my boyfriend but for different reason. So I told my boyfriend I wanted to take a break because maybe we would appreciate each other more or figure out if we could live without each other. But the real reason was I thought he had too much of an effect on me. I'm in love with him and he has said he is in love with me multiple times too. But anyway after I told him I wanted a break my friend calls and says she's done with her boyfriend for good which I knew was a lie because she told me he asked if their going to kiss and she said "idk" But at that moment I was having doubts about this "break because I realized I already knew the answers to the questions I thought this "break" would answer, which she was fine with because she knew I had a good boyfriend.

So I texted my boyfriend again and said what I told her about changing my mind he didn't text back so when we were in school everything seemed kind of normal so I figured he saw my message about how I don't want a break. I asked him do we go out he said I don't know but when we got on the bus he didnt acknowledge me he usually saves me a seat but he didnt which is fine. But he didn't even speak to me either. So the day after we still don't talk. So that afternoon I text him and ask him "do we go out?". He says "no you wanted a break so let's take a break". So I just say "aha whatever you say (his name)" and he doesn't text back but when he said that, I realized he must want one too.

I just don't want to lose him for good because I love him and I've never loved any guy but I don't bother him and I give him his space. I know what I want when it comes to relationships and I'm very mature for my age (14). I just wanted to better us. By the way now my friends talking about getting back together with her boyfriend.

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I am 14 to and I am a boy so I can help I had the same sitiuation with my girl friend . She told me that she wanted a break and that we were spending too much time with each others , that really really hurt me . You don't know how much it hurts to know that the person you love doesn't want to spend time with you , my girl friend said that she was sorry after a while and things got better , I think you should try doing that... it was in the beginning of our relation ship

Thanks so much your answer has really helped me I hope your stratagie works but I think it will and I'm glad everything worked out for you and your girlfriend but thanks again

Let him get his head settled because you hurt him. You cut him lose for no good reason, and without telling him. You made a decision without him, and it back fired.

I think he will be ready to talk and accept your apology when his emotional dust settles.

Good luck!

Thanks your absolutely right I really appreciate the advice :)

I have 3 years and 5 months with my boyfriend he said he wanted to take a break to see if I was the one he wanted to be w forever come on almost 4 years that's stupid we have in this break for a month and a couple of days already its hell witout him I fuccen love him id want to lost him never ever!my advice is don't take a break things get sadddier and worst

I fuccen love him please come back we still text but id see him o kick it with him