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  • Feb 24, 2007, 08:31 AM
    acholsapple
    I'm in trouble :(
    I am only fifteen and I have been pregnant before.. in blood and I lost it well its been a while and me and my boyfriend never use protection, I was a virgin when I met him, and we had sex through all my ovuation days unprotected and we have for the eleven months we have been dating well about two months ago we had sex when I was on my period and I am on a strict cycle 21 days apart and I bleed for five. Well last month I bled a light pink very faint but clotty for two days. This month I have had nothing. I feel very tired I often need power naps. I want to eat all the time and I feel like I have a bubble in my tummy right above my belly button and its swollen and hard. My breasts have grown,not dramatically, and they feel heavy and tingly. My lower back hurts really had and I get headeaches often, and I have been frequently urinating. I guess what I am asking is if anyone else has experienced this and If I have all those signs and feel pregnant am I?
    I guess what I am saying is HELP
  • Feb 24, 2007, 08:40 AM
    shygrneyzs
    Those can be indicators of a pregnancy, they usually are. You need medical attention, so please see your doctor or a women's clinic or the county health clinic. Have you boughten a home pregnancy kit and tested yourself? If not, why not try there and see if you are pregnant?
  • Feb 24, 2007, 10:19 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Yes having sex causes you to be pregnant, and it appears you are wanting to be. So why do you call it trouble if you have been trying to get pregnant anyway.

    So get used to being called mom, changing diapers and all that fun stuff you have been trying to make happen.
  • Feb 24, 2007, 11:16 AM
    buggage
    Definitely go to the doctor. If you are pregnant, you will need to go anyway for the health of the child, as well as you, (esp since you are so young, and your body still developing). It could also be other things besides pregnancy, and needs to be checked out. If you don't get yourself taken care of, it could lead to worse things. Why do you want to be a mom at such a young age. You can barely take care of yourself, much less a baby that will be completely dependent on you for everything. Its all fun and games until baby gets sick and you are up all night with a crying vomiting baby. Or teething. Scared. Or just plain cranky. You don't have the money to raise a baby. Baby's are so expensive. Clothes, furniture, diapers, food, shots/doctor visits, medications, the list goes on and on. Its hard enough when you have good paying jobs as adults. I know you can't have that good of a job, if any at the age of 15. And don't count on your boyfriend sticking around after baby is born, and things get rough(if he stays that long) Even if he does stay, neither of you will have an education on which to build good strong jobs that will be reliable enough to care for baby. IF you are pregnant, I pray that you are able to get help from family to care for this child. If you aren't, I pray that you stop the immaturity of these actions and WAIT until you really can provide a stable home and life for a child. Be smart, use protection, or don't have sex. Its not just YOUR life in the balance.
  • Feb 25, 2007, 05:03 AM
    ghost56
    There is a possibility that you are pregnant if you are having unprotected sex, you need to take a test using the first urine you pass whe you wake up in the morning, if that is negative and you still don't get your period, ask the doctor to take a pregnancy blood test.

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