I feel like my boyfriend is always ditching me for his friends. I know its OK to have time with friends. But I do everything for him. I give him money. I'm always there for him. I don't want to break up with him but I tried explaining to him it hurts my feelings and half the time I feel like I am only a option to him and I hate it. Please help me and give me advice on what I can do for him to realize he is wrong.

Stop doing so much for him. He takes advantage because you allow it. Stop being an option. He will realize all you do and how you feel about how he treats you when you stop doing everything for him.
How old is he, Sounds like he sees you as mom, not a girl friend.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Stop doing so much for him. He takes advantage because you allow it. Stop being an option. He will realize all you do and how you feel about how he treats you when you stop doing everything for him.
How old is he, Sounds like he sees you as mom, not a girl friend.

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Thank you for your advice, he is 20

You do everything for him you give him money? Does he have a job?
He does not have to treat you any better because you don't demand to be treated better. Stop being mommy to him. He will either leave or straighten up, either way you'll know where you stand with him.