I live in Hamilton, Ontario in a house that is owned by my mother. I pay all the costs, mortgage, condo fee and utilities. I asked my then boyfriend in August of 2009 to move out. He does not pay anything. He says he will be out by Christmas, by the end of April, by summer. In other words he's stalling. How can I get him and all of his things out of my home? He is a master manipulator of the law. He currently owes his ex in excess of $50,000 for child support but keeps getting away with not paying her. He also has an extensive criminal record and I'm afraid to push too hard.

Hi there!

Sounds like you are in tough situation. There are lots of resources in Ontario you can use. While you are planning make sure you are safe from your abusive partner and don't let him know what you are planning if you think he is dangerous. There is a greater risk of violence when an intimate relationship is ending. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

You might need to find resources that 1) deal with your property and 2) deal with your abusive spouse.

Support for women with abusive (ex)partners:

Assaulted Women’s Helpline
http://www.awhl.org
Free, anonymous and confidential 24-hour telephone telephone line to all women in the province of Ontario who have experienced any form of abuse. They provide crisis counselling, safety planning, emotional support, information and referrals accessible 7 days a week, 365 days a year
GTA 416.863.0511
Toll Free 1.866.863.0511

Your Legal Rights Ontario
Abuse and Family Violence Resources
http://yourlegalrights.on.ca/abuse-and-family-violence/partner-abuse

Springtide Resources
Emotional Abuse
http://www.springtideresources.org/information-resources?terms=emotional+abuse


Property:

Tenant Hotline
416-921-9494
http://www.torontotenants.org/services/hotline
Free telephone counseling service for tenants in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. The Hotline is operated by the Federation of Metro Tenants' Associations. Our Hotline Counsellors offer information about tenants' rights to any tenant who calls Mon-Fri 8:30am-6:00pm

Landlord's Self-Help Centre
416-504-5190
www.landlordselfhelp.com

Your Legal Rights Ontario
Housing Law Resources
http://yourlegalrights.on.ca/housing-law

Ontario Women's Justice Network
http://owjn.org
416-392-3148

Hope you get the support you need! Feel free to post again if this does not help and I will try to answer.