Me and my ex were together for 5 months, I loved him and he loved me, he was partying a lot cause he was at university and I was unwell at the time so he said "let's get together in 2 yrs when I finish uni we need a break".. So I accepted that, in December I developed depression and he couldn't deal with it so he said "goodbye forever" I know he won't come back, but part of me is hoping that he will. When I listen to music I daydream about being with him and I think about what we had.. How do I get over him?

We split up 3 times because she was mentally ill n I couldn't cope. But she's better now and I love her and she loves me, sometimes she's really nice likes "hey baby you okay? Want to talk tonite" and other times I send her messages and she's like "why text me? U no I'm at college" and saying things like "I never loved u your not right in the head"
Then saying she loves me again, what's going on?

I still love her, she finished me cause I was ill.. I want to prove to her I'm better now, I haven't messaged her in 3 months, I want to send her a message so she replies what shall I say?

I don't have mutual friends of his, but when I just logged on it came up with "people u may know" and my ex name. Why is this? Is he on my profile or something? We're not fb friends anymore so..?

Do not expect anything on Facebook to disappear just because you broke up with someone. If he was an ex-husband and if you are still using his last name then you might get pop ups or a window opening suggesting you are friends giving you the opportunity to accept or decline. If not interested simply ignore it. It's just a tool Facebook has searching the website trying to connect friendships/friends.

No we don't have the same last name I'm only 17

Same thing even with a boyfriend or girlfriend. You once were friends and possibly somewhere in Facebook's old files or archives information is coming up showing that you once were friends and Facebook system is just trying to connect/re-connect you... it's just a machine it doesn't know you have broken up with your ex.

Also, if one of your friends has your ex as one of their friends this might be a reason it is coming up too. You write you don't have mutual friends, but you won't really know that unless you compare your friends list.

Ohh okay thanks :)

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Originally Posted by lawspawsxx

Ohh okay thanks :)

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You are welcome... I hope it help easy your mind. :-)

Ok on a personal level it happened to me. My ex-husband and I were friends on his first Facebook account and my Facebook account. We become unmarried and HE opened another Facebook account which I am not on his friends list with this account and no longer is he a friend on my account as he was before. From his second Facebook account, I have received the same pop up/window you are seeing suggesting we might be friends. There was no connection to the other account he opened up so how did it happen. It's just Facebook software system trying to match people who don't want to be matched up as friends anymore.

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We split up 3 times because she was mentally ill n I couldn't cope.

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I still love her, she finished me cause I was ill.. I want to prove to her I'm better now,

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Confusing, please clarify??

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Confusing, please clarify???

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Tal, That was my next question also... lost in translation or something! :-)