I've seen many posts from women saying their guy vanished, then one appeared 2 months later, now they're together. There's another one, he vanished for a week but he returned, there's another one, 1 month... pfff this is really killing me!

Should I wait? Or should I just stop thinking about it?
I feel stupid thinking I did everything wrong, why this has to happen, we just dated 1 month and I feel I did a mess there. The good thing I did not have sex with him, maybe he didn't worth it..

Why are you waiting for anything ? And if some fool dumped me and did not call for a month, I would not give them the time of day.

If you are already dating or just started dating, why not just pick up the silly phone and call them, Where is a rule the man must be the one to call, If you want to know what is going on, call them.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Why are you waiting for anything ? and if some fool dumped me and did not call for a month, I would not give them the time of day.

If you are already dating or just started dating, why not just pick up the silly phone and call them, Where is a rule the man must be the one to call, If you want to know what is going on, call them.

---

YES! I know, but I have to always start contacting him, I will not do that now, maybe I pushed him away, men never explain why they leave.

Maybe I said or did something wrong, I really liked this guy, but maybe he wasn't for me and maybe is not the right time to meet people.