My ex boyfriend broke up with me when I told him I was pregnant. He didn't want to have a baby, didn't come around my whole pregnancy until after our son was born.. I miss him I want to get back together and have our family together. But he doesn't want to. He says I'm the sweetest girl he's ever met but I met a messed up guy that can't stay in a relationship. What can I do to get him back. I want him to start missing me.

Telling me lol I know what it's like to be told "you're the sweetest girl" it makes u think your stupid for being sweet! I actually think he will come around because of your son... He's just in shock and coming to terms with the responsibility. He will come around though. I would say all u can do is play hard to get and get him to see other guys flirting with u online... Just akways look like your having fun n never show weakness at this point x

You can't make him miss you. If he doesn't, then he just doesn't.
Trying to make him jealous will only leave you in angst and disappointed.
I'm curious to know how old you two are.
He was not interested in being a father, when the responsibility entered he exited, right?
Not much of a man in my book.
What are your plans as far as him being in your child's life and for support?

Focus I think a lot more with getting a solid plan to take care of your child, rather than trying to force him to miss you. In this way you both can maybe bond through responsiility, as he will be in your life, and your child's life for a long time to come so you must work to be great parents, even as the romance has stalled.

Maybe he needs time, but that's not the issue, as now that he is a father, whether he wanted to be or NOT, he must fulfill his reponsibility, and That's the important thing to have a relationship about, NOT the love you want from him.

It may be hard to stay focused when of course your emotions are running high, but there is a child involved now, that depends on you both.