I have never had an orgasm through penetration alone. I want one! I can orgasm just fine through clitoral stimulation, and I use a little bullet to get me there when I have sex with my husband. But I feel like I'm the one giving me the orgasm, not him. We've tried various positions that provide friction for the clitoris while he's thrusting but I don't feel that will do the trick. I don't get nearly enough friction from his pelvic bone to give me an orgasm. What else can we try?

Once when I was younger I almost felt like I could orgasm from a guys finger, he was doing a "come here" kind of movement. It was unreal, but that only happened once and I've never felt anything like that again. But I feel there's potential in there!

I'm the same.. its very common in women to be incapable to reach climax through penetration alone. As much as it sucks. Try a position where your husband can put the bullet where you like it while penetrating. You will be more satisfied that he did it, and so will he. ;)

Try different positions. At the library, there are two books -- Joy of Sex and More Joy of Sex (612.6). Page through them for ideas.

MOST women cannot orgasm through penetration alone. The nerves are just not in the right places for that to happen.

Yes, normally again"most"women will not orgasm though penetration, you can try by having a couple organsm before you start penetration and see if that helps.

Also there make a penis ring that vibrates and has various shapes to help contact that may help.