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  • May 3, 2012, 10:34 PM
    Sagelaw1122
    My girlfriend dumped me.
    My girlfriend dumped me' and said it's because she is too busy for a boyfriend and just wants to be friends for a while and date again when she has time and we've been broken up for a month now, but when we hangout she is still kissing on me' and stuff and we've done nothing but argue.

    But tonight. She said she just wants to be friends. No more of the I like you stuff. And I asked her do you still have feelings for me' and she said yes but not as much as I use too.

    Her friends said it's because she thinks I'm clingy. I CANNOT lose this girl. She's everything I've ever wanted. She's the girl I dream about every night. Please someone help me' save this relationship with some awesome advice thanks guys!
  • May 4, 2012, 06:34 AM
    talaniman
    How old are you both? How long have you been together, and do you think you are clingy? If so, WHY?

    When it gets to the point she wants friendship, instead of romance, its usually best to bow out gracefully, and do so with dignity, and respect. Then disappear. This gives you time to stop living in high false hope, and stop trying to get her back.

    Sorry guy if a month of dating after being dumped has not worked to get her back, then its time to let go, and redirect your focus to something else entirely. Her feelings have changed, and you must adjust your thinking. Sucks to hear I know, been there, done that. But in time you will get over this obsessive idea of her being your forever romantic partner. Its not going to happen.
  • May 5, 2012, 05:59 PM
    christiney88
    Oh I know exactly what your going through :( its so horrible... The constant longing and going over why in your head. I know it's so sad! But I read an online plan which says to agree with the split so it'll hurt their ego and it won't be what they expect. Then wait until she contacts you. When u do see her, always act happy yet mysterious. U can use your friendship to get back in her radar. Have girls ask u out on dates online so she sees. Post photos. The longer u are away and happy - the higher your value
  • May 5, 2012, 06:22 PM
    LadySam
    Playing games is not the way to go. What will having girls ask you out so she can see accomplish? Nothing.
    I agree that you should bow out gracefully, she has already told you her feelings have changed.

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