I am 25 years old married women and my husband want me to squrit but I cannot he is so dominating while sex and he fingers me for more than hours then too only a drop is coming I am not able to squrit . He does the fore play for long time and he penetrates deeply for hours and I am getting very weak and sometimes I feel like he is killing me. His penis is too big for my vagina. What to do?

Hello Bennu,

I believe that your husband doesn't know that most y women can't quirt, he needs to learn about it, on your part you better talk to him, good luck.

John

He is being abusive - you need to speak to someone. Do you have a Physician to talk to?

And, yes, he needs to understand female anatomy.

What Country are you in?

Stop having sex until you can both sit down and discuss expectations and reality. What erotica (porn and stories) show about 'squirting' is not reality. In porn, it is water, milk, combinations of other non-bodily fluids, or pee. What he 'wants' is a fantasy. He needs to understand it cannot be a reality.

What you are describing borders (if not crosses the line) on being sexually abusive. You need to stand up for yourself and both of you need to communicate.

'Squirting' is an uncontrolled reaction in women who have the physical ability. Most women are not physically capable (if what little research on the subject is correct.) In many (probably most) cases, 'squirting' is loss of bladder control. Frankly, if he really wants you to pee on him, make sure your badder is full before sex.

Understand golden showers ISN'T squirting... what he is wanting is golden showers. Some people enjoy that... I'm just not among them.

Yes refuse to have sex since you are being abused. This is abuse. Most women do not "squirt" so he is wanting something that you most likely can not do.