My two kids and I moved in with my boyfriend and his three year old son a few years ago, we have now a 15 moth old baby. We had our ups and down and things seem to be getting worse, like he is quick to lose his temper with me he complains about my oldest kids a lot, and seems like he almost wants them to be like perfect.

We go weeks happy then he gets mad for whatever reason and tell me his "done with this family ****" and tells me I should move on, but days later his holding me telling me he loves me... I don't know what to do, I feel he so unstable with his feelings toward me,and because I love him I stay hoping he would stay positive and make the best of it, but seems like he is giving up, and I feel hopeless to changing his mind, no matter what I do is just never enough.

And to make things worse I just found out I was pregnant, And I want the baby but why bring a child to this world with things being the way they are. I don't know how to accept this relationship may not ever work and he just doesn't love me like he use too, I don't know how to walk away.

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We go weeks happy then he gets mad for whatever reason and tell me his "done with this family ****" and tells me I should move on, but days later his holding me telling me he loves me...

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He seems to blow up and vent, then comes back to earth. Not unlike most of us who are in long term relationships and marriages. You cruise along nicely then boom, a storm hits but you weather it and keep moving forward.

I suspect you being pregnant has a lot to do with this, and after having 3 already under roof, maybe you are stressing. Have you told him yet?

Maybe you should stop bringing a baby into the world when you don't know how to take care of them and don't have your own life in line.