Ask Me Help Desk - What should I do?

Well there's this guy and well we've known each other for a long time now and I realized I had feelings for him. So I told him and he say he did too. He said he had chosen 3 girls to give a chance to. I told my friends and they thought that was messed up so I told him and the next day he told me he decided not to do that because he thought about it and decided it was wrong. Well then he told me that I was going to be the ONLY one.

Well then this other girl comes in and like she just takes him like that. I'm like WHAT?? He's been ignoring me lately I think its because she told him to because ever since she's here that's when he stop. There is so much he doesn't know about her though. He thinks she is so good because that's what she's made him believe. Truth. She smokes. She is a player. She left her boyfriend for another guy then broke up with that guy to get back with her ex and then she broke up with him to come with my guy. He doesn't know that. She acts as if they are going out but they aren't. Also the only reason he is like with her right now is because everyone is telling him to. She lied to my best friend and we aren't friends anymore I don't know what to do. Every morning he would say GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL <3 and every night GOOD NIGHT SWEET DREAMS <3 I don't know though I just don't.

Let him alone, he is nothing of yours, and his new relationship there is none of your business. If he is giving her a chance that is his own fault, he will get to know here soon enough.

Thank you. :) I've been having trouble deciding what to do. You just helped me with that so Thanks:)

Should I commit suicide?

I am so very tired of my life. It is the same. I like someone then I love them and then my heart gets broken. This is the 3rd time that this happens to me and I'm tired of it. Also people are thinking bad of me thanks to some girl that is lying to everyone. She lied to my best friend and now we aren't friends. I feel ignored everywhere I go. I feel as if nobody cares because apparently nobody does. I'm thinking about it. So any advice?

Do you have a plan? How old are you? You have no living relatives?

This is under teens, life has not even started yet.

Of course you don't kill yourself over a dufus boy that is so easily influenced by a player, and her friend. I mean he had already told you that he was thinking of THREE girls, but backed down after you told your friends and confronted him.

Don't worry, he will get burned by this girl soon, and your true friends would never believe her. So relaxed, not only have you found out about your so called "friends", but you are seeing that this guy wasn't worth a hill of beans, even though you have known and liked him for some time.

Its rough going through this and it's a hard learned lesson about the way some people are, but you will overcome the pain they have caused. You just need better friends, real ones, and make better choices about the people you trust, and what you tell them.

Consider yourself lucky that you found out about these folks around you, and can do something about it. Especially the cute dufus, who is about to be used big time. You could have been stuck with him.

Your revenge is to be happy, and not let these NOGS pull you down with them. You'll see.

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Originally Posted by Itssel

Thank you. :) i've been having trouble deciding what to do. You just helped me with that so Thanks:)

Should I commit suicide?

I am so very tired of my life. It is the same. I like someone then I love them and then my heart gets broken. This is the 3rd time that this happens to me and I'm tired of it. Also people are thinking bad of me thanks to some girl that is lying to everyone. She lied to my best friend and now we aren't friends. I feel ignored everywhere I go. I feel as if nobody cares because apparently nobody does. I'm thinking about it. So any advice?

This too shall pass. Suicide is never the answer. Never. The consequences for such an action are too much for you to bear. Problems don't go away with suicide. You trade trivial problems for eternal problems. Call a suicide help line if you ever feel like you want to do this. And pray to God for mercy.

Peace...

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Of course you don't kill yourself over a dufus boy that is so easily influenced by a player, and her friend. I mean he had already told you that he was thinking of THREE girls, but backed down after you told your friends and confronted him.

Don't worry, he will get burned by this girl soon, and your true friends would never believe her. So relaxed, not only have you found out about your so called "friends", but you are seeing that this guy wasn't worth a hill of beans, even though you have known and liked him for some time.

Its rough going thru this and its a hard learned lesson about the way some people are, but you will overcome the pain they have caused. You just need better friends, real ones, and make better choices about the people you trust, and what you tell them.

Consider yourself lucky that you found out about these folks around you, and can do something about it. Especially the cute dufus, who is about to be used big time. You could have been stuck with him.

Your revenge is to be happy, and not let these NOGS pull you down with them. You'll see.

Thank you , you made me feel better. It was really helpful so thanks:)

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Do you have a plan? How old are you? You have no living relatives?

I am 12 years old. I do have a family though they don't seem to care.