I have a boyfriend who had a friend before me met. They hung out all the time and then I came into the picture. One night I went out to hang out with them at the bar and *Bob* told my friend "It's bro's before ho's", so my boyfriend apologized and asked if I would go home. A few months later *Bob* found a girlfriend and started standing my boyfriend up for boy time (which is practically a religious ceremony) . My boyfriend was so mad and said "he dumped me" for like 3 weeks. Pretty normal at this point I thought.

So almost a year later, my boyfriend and I had a fall out and took a break for a month. During that time he and *Bob* hung out every Sunday like always. So I go to one of there parties after being invited, and swear, the whole night they were talking about their friendship, relationship. Who dumped who, and my boyfriend said to him "You complete me".. hmmm.. never really discussing me and his more recent break up. I left them to their gayness. I used to be married to a manly man.. Maybe I'm not used to this kind of affection and hugs and loving words between two men. Any thoughts?

Hmm... were they joking around and saying all this in jest?

Don't compare your new boyfriend with you manly man ex. Not fair, plus I think you have enough issues in the relationship without worrying about these two being gay.

Men talk in that manner, especially when they are close. It doesn't mean they are gay, although they may be, this is not an indication of it.